Transparently Speaking
We are Diana and Joy - two moms who each supported their children to transition in early elementary school to become their true selves. We are using our voices to reflect our child’s voices, and have navigated everything from family and friends, to health care offices and schools. We are here to share our experience and our learning along this transgender journey, to provide support and guidance, parent-to-parent, and if you find yourself on a similar journey, we want you to know that you are not alone. Beyond parenting, we are also excited about building a community of allies and chosen family who will stand together with us, Transparently Speaking.
Episodes
85 episodes
Post Election Reflections (#85)
Following the 2024 Presidential election, Diana and Joy reflect on the results and share insights about their families' personal reactions and responses upon learning that Trump will be president in 2025. The discussion includes a reflect...
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37:04
Why Your Vote Matters: Voting, Misinformation, and Protecting Our Families (#84)
In the lead-up to Election Day, Diana and Joy discuss the escalating impact of political misinformation—particularly surrounding transgender rights. With personal stories and clear-eyed insights, they explore the emotional toll of anti-trans rh...
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Episode 84
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25:33
Clark Speaks: Reflections on Transition and Identity (#83)
In this special episode of Transparently Speaking, we have a first-time guest: Clark. After sharing stories about him for so long, we are excited to present Clark's own voice as he opens up about his transition journey, his identity, a...
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Episode 83
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28:49
Navigating They/Them Pronouns (and family communication) (#82)
We're excited to invite Sophie back in Episode 82. Join Joy and Sophie in exploring parental roles and responsibilities in communicating preferred pronouns and navigating extended family understanding (in Alex’s case, in advance of a 1:1 ...
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Episode 82
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26:20
Cancelled for the Safety of Transgender/Nonbinary Children (#81)
In this episode, Joy and Diana discuss the unexpected cancellation of a conference for families with transgender and non-binary children. Five days before it was set to occur, the conference was called off for security reasons. The...
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Episode 81
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26:46
Values and boundaries (#80)
Diana shares a specific challenge she's facing as she discovers an organization she enjoys working with is not currently open to conversation around gender identity. Join us in Episode #80 as Diana and Joy explore how values drive boundar...
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Episode 80
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20:50
Navigating Club Sports as a (Non-Disclosed) Transgender Athlete
Join Diana and Joy as they discuss the ongoing journey of supporting Samantha, a transgender athlete, in youth sports. This episode explores the importance of maintaining Samantha's privacy while ensuring her right to play. Hear their insights ...
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Episode 79
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29:37
Introducing Sophie and Alex (#78)
In Episode #78 we welcome a new voice and storyline to share another family's journey as they support their non-binary child. Joy introduces her friend Sophie, whose child recently named their pronouns as "they/ them."
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Episode 78
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33:49
The Wounds Have Not Healed (#77)
In this episode, Diana shares a recent incident involving Clark with an organization they previously had to educate to ensure Clark’s equal rights. This new interaction sheds light on the deeper impact last year's events had on Clark and reveal...
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Episode 77
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26:16
Navigating Sleepovers (#76)
In Episode #76, Joy and Diana reflect on how gender identity (and nondisclosure of gender identity) has influenced their thinking about who, when and how their kids might spend an overnight with others. Join us to hear a broader reflectio...
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Episode 76
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23:52
Evolving Summer Strategies (75)
In this episode, Joy and Diana discuss how their approach to managing summer activities has evolved since their children first transitioned. They explore the challenges and strategies related to their children using gendered facilities, such as...
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Episode 75
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21:13
Tradition... 2024 Pride Month Letter (#74)
Join us in episode #74 to kickoff and celebrate pride month! Joy and Diana share another letter of hope and love, dedicated to any and all who might benefit from being seen and supported.
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9:43
The "Big" Reveal (#73)
In this episode, Diana and Joy continue their discussion from last time, focusing on the book about a transgender boy that was shared in Dinah's class. It's an episode you won't want to miss, full of laughter and hope. Diana also shares a lette...
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Episode 73
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27:56
Undisclosed: Navigating What Ifs (#72)
In Episode 72, Diana shares the details of a school-based scenario that’s arisen, and how she’s preparing for the possibility of Dyna disclosing his transgender identity. Join Joy and Diana as they explore what’s different this time (vs. ...
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Episode 72
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21:37
Preparing to Let Go (#71)
Diana gives an update on preparing Clark to leave the house and go to school next year. Listen as things get real for Diana, as she realizes her feelings as she considers saying goodbye to her oldest child.
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Episode 71
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21:17
Lets' talk about s3x (#70)
Join Diana and Joy as they share what's been holding them back from having conversations with their trans youth about intimacy and safe sex, and learn what they are taking away as opportunities for further conversation.
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Episode 70
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21:41
Movin' Out (#69)
Diana talks about Clark's next steps after graduation and her feelings about them. Joy helps Diana explore what is coming up for her and provides perspective.
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Episode 69
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24:20
Nex Benedict (#68)
Diana and Joy share their experience in discovering and navigating the news of Nex Benedict’s tragic bullying and death in Oklahoma.
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Episode 68
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23:28
Navigating Athletic Eligibility (#67)
Join Joy and Diana for an update on the discussion with school district administration, as Joy pursues Samantha's eligibility to participate in the sport she loves. Listen to learn about an Endocrinologist's perspective on sex vs. gender,...
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Episode 67
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29:06
Trust in...who? (#66)
In this podcast episode (#66), Joy is getting ready for a meeting with her child's school district to discuss sports participation. The focus shifts to the importance of trust in the administration to safeguard her child's identity during this ...
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Episode 66
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24:12
Support Groups (#65)
Joy, after many years, has returned to attending a support group. This leads to Diana and Joy reflecting on their experiences attending various support groups in Episode 65. They discuss the advantages and disadvantages of attending support gro...
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Episode 65
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23:23
New Years Resolutions (key lessons learned in 2023) - #64
Join us in this episode to hear more about Diana and Clark's trip to Mexico in October. This episode is also a reflection and celebration of key learnings from 2023.
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Episode 64
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22:43
Slow Down and Enjoy (#63)
Diana and Joy discuss their holiday traditions and reflect on what the first years post-transition were like. They share their advice and lessons learned.
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Episode 63
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22:04
Giving & Receiving Support (#62)
In this episode, Diana and Joy explore assumptions, fears, and challenges in giving, receiving, and asking for support. The concept of support is in the context of anti-trans legislation that has been passed or proposed in many states.&nb...
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Episode 62
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19:52